Parents

Assalamualaikum.

Orang kata, selalunya anak lelaki rapat dengan mak dan anak perempuan rapat dengan ayah. When I heard 'bout this, I was like, seriously? Macam tak berapa nak masuk kejap. Aku rasa macam tak je. Bila dah makin berfikir dengan wajarnya (matang? hahahaha) Betul jugalah statement tu.

When I was young, I was very closed to my dad. Ayah pergi mana, aku ikut. Nak beli barang kat kedai dekat je pun, aku ikut. Sampai my mom rasa annoyed. Dekat je pun kedainya. Hahaha. I remembered, when my dad went for tentera a few weeks, I cried & watched my dad's pictures. Sometimes, my mom gave me his clothes (hahahahaha). Bila ayah tak ada kat rumah masa tu, rasa macam tak cukup je dalam rumah dulu. Rasa macam something missing je.

Tapi bila makin besar ni, makin lama makin rapat dengan my mom.Well, with mom, I just can share everything to her. My studied, friends and about girls' problems (sometimes men? lol) . When I tried to speak 'bout that thing with my dad, it feels so awkward. Kalau bercakap dengan ayah pun, maybe cakap pasal jalan raya, kereta, kerja and paling selalu, bila nak mintak duit. serious talk. Hahaha.

Recently, I passed my driving test. First try okay! Hahaha. On that time, I just want to back home early and share everything with my mom what happened. Then, I called my dad to pick me up. Ingatkan dah call my dad, terus letak & tinggal tunggu je. My dad tanyalah macam mana test, JPJ ok tak & just the normal questions in JPJ test. But, aku jawab tu macam ya ya tak ya je. Banyak ya kan apa yang my dad tanya daripada mulut sendiri yang cakap. Bila dengan my mom je, I shared everything to her. Even my mom didn't asked me. 

A few days later, I realized, am I too rude to my dad? I feel like, my relationship with my dad growing apart? Rasa serba salah. Maybe because, my dad rarely asking me about my daily life e.g studied, school, friends or anything else. So, when I realized my mistake, I laughed and sorry dad. I need.. nope. I must do something to be dad's best youngest daughter.

By the way, dengan siapa pun korang rapat, tak kiralah your mom or your dad, mesti respect kedua-duanya. Tak semestinya korang rapat dengan mak, tak payah hormat ayah. Kalau rapat ngan ayah, tak payah hormat mak. Remember bro, whatever you do, always respect your parents. Tak kiralah kauorang gaji beratus ribu dengan rumah besar & kereta mewah ke, kalau mak ayah hilang keberkatan kat anak-anaknya, semua benda yang korang buat tu sia-sia je. Rasa kosong.

Ingat satu je. Keredhaan Allah tu terletak pada keredhaan ibu bapa. Kalau ibu bapa tak redha dengan apa kita buat, Allah pun tak redha. Always make them happy and don't make them stress with your bad attitude. 

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